Cosmetic Therapies; Are You Vain?
I offer cosmetic acupuncture, cosmetic facial cupping therapy and cosmetic cellulite treatments in my acupuncture clinic. (And yes, if you want me to work on your cellulite, I must touch your bum!)
There are many added health benefits to using the cosmetic methods I offer as opposed to other, more invasive methods, but putting that aside for the moment, there are some other issues that tend to raise their “ugly” heads.
When I first began learning cosmetic therapies in my training, I didn’t know if I would be particularly interested in using them in my practice. They weren’t’ the reason I got into the field. I was interested in helping people with pain. I wanted to help them to regain balance and health. I wanted to help people to be well and happy.
I have realized that I was missing some very valid points about cosmetic therapies. Being well and happy can be very connected to looking well.
There is a perception that those who come in for my cosmetic therapies must be vain and self-absorbed. They are imagined as people with too much money and too much focus on their appearance.
I would like to offer some other perspectives.
First off, all of us, and I mean all of us participate in cosmetic enhancements. Do you comb your hair in the morning? Do you wash your face? Do you shave? Do you put on make-up? Do you try to wear clothes that match and are attractive? “Why do you do any of these things if it is not to look more presentable to the rest of the population? ‘nuff said!
Next off, we all know that our society favours the attractive people. Attractive people have more friends; they get better jobs and are generally more successful. Do your own research – it shouldn’t take more than 5 minutes to come up with a bunch of studies to agree with the above statements. Or you could just have a look at this video of Susan Boyle.
Take a look at the faces of the judges and of those in the audience before Susan Boyle sang her heart out on that stage. She was completely and totally judged by her appearance before she had a chance to show her amazing talent. Appearance plays a very important role in how we are treated by others.
That brings me to my next point. If appearance is so much a part of how we are treated by others, it stands to reason that it can play an important role in our success or failure in work and social situations. Think about those who work in sales, fashion, beauty, fitness and health. Their appearance has a very direct role in how successful they can be in their particular industries, but they are not the only ones who can be impacted by their appearance in their workplaces.
On top of workplace issues there are also confidence issues that can affect social happiness. Think about the overweight person who is too shy to go to the beach or to the gym. Or, how about the person with acne who tries to hide their face under their hair?
Are wrinkles, double chins, sagging cheeks and lumpy bumpy skin so very different from other socially challenging problems?
If you put on makeup to cover a blemish, or do a comb-over to hide your bald spot, aren’t you just as “vain” as someone who tries a cosmetic therapy to improve something they are unhappy with?
And, speaking about being unhappy- we are a society overdosed on stress. Yes, we should be finding ways to reduce stress, but let’s face it – most of us really can’t quit our jobs and move to Fiji. So we have no choice but to find other ways to cope.
Acupuncture and cupping therapy are both extremely effective stress reducers. I can’t tell you how many clients get so relaxed they actually snore on my treatment table. When they get embarrassed about it, I tell them I consider it a complement! If they can be so relaxed that they actually snore while in my office, I know I have done my job!
Many days I think I get almost as much out of my work as my clients do. It is very rewarding to help someone to look and feel better.
So the next time you hear about someone who wants to look a little more attractive or a little younger, give them a break. They may be required to look a certain way for their job. They may be trying to compete with younger more energetic looking co-workers. They may be stressed out about looking attractive to their mate, or they may just be looking for a little reward or a little stress buster after their hard days work! Give them a break, and ask yourself if there is really anything wrong with wanting to look good.
And, if you know someone who you would like to give a wonderfully relaxing gift to, buy them a gift certificate for a facial cupping therapy session. We don’t realize how much tension we hold in our faces, and how great it feels to have it released.




